Thursday, November 9, 2017
The Pumpkin Patch
We visited the Petaluma Pumpkin Patch today with our Littles. It was fabulous. Lots of free things to do and see. We purchased a few pumpkins on the way out and while in line, saw a woman with a small girl tallying up her total due. When she discovered one medium pumpkin was SEVEN dollars, she informed the cashier (for all to hear) that the pumpkin was "not worth $7!". She was nicely dressed wore $60 pair of Tom's, had an IPhone6 sticking out of her back pocket sporting a Michael Kors bag on her arm. I'm certain she spent $5 on a cup of Starbuck's today.
To make a long story short, she and her child enjoyed a morning of free activities and she bitched about the cost of a pumpkin at the top of her voice. She was rude and entitled. It really irked me. Does she not get it? That pumpkin covers the cost of a free morning of play for her and her child. Yes. You can get pumpkins $12/3 at Lucky's. There are no activities for that bargain price. No photo ops. No petting zoo. No corn pit. No corn maze just for the Littles. No straw bales on which to climb. Picking your pumpkin from the box at Lucky's in front of the store does not provide everlasting memories (and a photo op) for you and your child.
Farming is hard--especially in times of drought. Bottom line: Be kind and appreciate all that waits for you at the local farms this Fall. These farmers work hard all year to entertain and enrich your family's holiday experiences. To that lady in line at the farm this morning, I say: Pay for your pumpkin and thank the farmer. Instead of complaining, try, perhaps to be an example of kindness for your child.
Wishing you all a lovely Autumn. Drink hot cider. Go for walks and enjoy the cold on your face. Make a pumpkin pie. Take in the beauty of all that is Sonoma County. Happy Fall Y'all
The Journey of a Single Rock
Thursday, October 26, 2017
Fire Storm
Monday, September 4, 2017
Confessions of a Blogger (from 2012)
I have so much for which to be thankful; my grandchildren and children, Dave's retirement, a recent trip to Disneyland and a trip to Kauai scheduled for the fall. Until now, I just couldn't seem focus and write. Well that, and my new Iphone which has made me become lazy and reduced me to one-fingered typing--not exactally condusive for long correspondence or updates more than 250 characters.
Life goes on. Each day the sun rises, the day unfolds, and I'm comforted that bedtime has once again arrived , so the cycle can begin tomorrow.
Confession Number 2: I have decided that since Dave has retired that I'm officiallyu ignoring Mondays. Who likes Monday anyway? After a long day shopping and preparing Sunday dinner, I'm ususally exhausted anyway. So, I no longer schedule anything on Monday. I stay in my jammies most Mondays and if I do anything it can most likely be accomplished from my bed. Sparkey likes Mondays. He gets up with Dave, hits the Dog Park, comes home for a treat and high tales it back to bed to snuggle with me. After years of working, raising kids, volunteering and keeping a family on track, who cares if I take Monday off? Not Dave. Not my kids. Definately not Sparkey.
Confession Number 3: My crystal chandiler hasn't been washed since November. It's really getting dusty since Helper Dave has made the garage into a workshop. There is lots of sanding, grinding and painting going on out there and make no mistake: I'm not complaining! All of the new projects have created dust and especially since the chandelier is in close proximity to the backdoor which leads to the garage it's vulnerable. It's that same "tomorrow" attitude that has gotten me behind with my housecleaning that halted my blog . Don't even get me started on the ceiling fans and my lack of housekeeping in general. If my Mother walked into my house, she'd glove up and pour the Pine Sol.
Confession number 4; I really suck at keeping up with my friends. If it weren't for Facebook, I'd never have contact with most of them. I've become a 'texter' and a 'poster' rather than a caller and card writer. I feel guilty, but with social media and texting so easily accessible in our daily lives, it's just so easy to text rather than call. Moreover, the postal theft is astonishing....first targeted is a card envelope looking for gift cards. Just read that the postal service lost 18 billion (with a b) dollars last year. When we stop getting mail delivery I won't be so hard on myself about sending cards. It looks like that day is coming faster than I thought.
Confession number 5 I suck at spelling and grammar. I really should take a class in fundamental grammar to be a better writer. It is on the "to do" list, which has become more like a bucket list. There are so many things I should do to make myself a healthier and even a better person. Most days I lack focus and spend the day looking for my glasses and my keys. If I can't remember where they are, how am I going to learn to conjugate a sentence?
Confession number 6 I think boxed cake mixes are awesome. Yes, I know how to make it from scratch, but sometimes all you have time for is a box of Betty Crocker to bake someone happy. One of my family's favorite desserts is a Peach Cobble Dump Cake which takes 4 ingredients. Even for the healthy food Nazi's out there, occasional use of a box cake will not kill you.
Confession number 7 If I had not married Dave, I would be a hoarder. He would even say I'm a qusi-hoarder now. I keep everything. He throws everything away. In the big picture of life that's a pretty good balance. I wouldn't be a filthy hoarder. I would have a system. I can mentally picture the maze of boxes in the garage. Thanks to Dave the maze is only in my mind.
Confession number 8 Facebook is really for Baby Boomer. Generation X thinks it was created for them. Even creator Mark Zukerburg though it was for them. I'm here to tell you I love Facebook. I receive a lot of satisfaction keeping in contact with my family and friends. I love watching children of young adults who are peers of my adult children. I have reconnected with family via Facebook. I have DISCOVERED family though Facebook. For the record, I don't play games or click "like" because it will help starving children.
Confession 9
Being a grandparent is the best job in the world.
Wednesday, October 28, 2015
El Dio de los Muertos
Each year, just before Halloween, we set up an altar in the center of our home. From year to year the finished product has been slightly different. After 10 years it has morphed into this beautiful expression of recognizing our loved ones. We do our best to keep a candle burning on the altar during the day. It is one of the things I do before the holiday hassle begins. It allows us to take time to honor those friends and family who have left this world. Upon the altar are things and photos of the ones who came before us and those who have left this world. The "things" I've collected through the years include my Grandmothers Mass card along with one of her rosary's. There are a pair of shoes which belonged to my brother Gary who was tragically taken from us in 1966. My mother cherished these worn shoes belonging to her oldest child, which still had dirt on them from her family's homestead in Texas where he was born. There is one of my father's many name badges from the annual Sonoma County Trail Blazers ride.
My kids gave me a hard time when the first altar appeared. Dave looked at me with a tilted head but never questioned our new family tradition. I've collected many things over the years. This year at our Family Reunion I acquired a small wall altar which has a cast replica of the Holy Family (under glass) in "bright" colors despite its age. My Prima Clairette believes it belonged to our Great Grandmother. If you do the math, this collectible has to be over 100 years old. In all honesty, when Dave saw this piece of vintage religious "art" he got real nervous. When it came home with us, I heard his "that piece of s___? Isn't coming into our house!" This week, when I brought it in from the garage his "Wait a minute...." was met with the assurance that this piece of my family's history would only be appearing at Casa Heizer through Thanksgiving.
While it is present, the little altar receives visits from family members and guests. I find my kids looking at the book which holds names and mass cards of many family and friends. If the flame is out, someone will light a candle and hopefully will take time to remember. I believe that one cannot grow to full potential without knowing from where they came. I credit the success of my children to two things: Eating at the family table and knowing from where they came.
Monday, December 20, 2010
Wednesday, November 3, 2010
The Church of Swiffer
Mom could remove spots from just about any fabric and had the BEST smelling laundry in the world. There was nothing like taking a shower at my Mom's house and pulling out one of her bright white towels which were fluffy and soft and always smelled of Downy. When people ask what the washing instructions were on a new piece of clothing, I replied "Take home to my Mom for washing". Frankly, being raised in such a sterile environment was just too much pressure for me, so I never tried to keep a home like hers. I was never going to be like her, so I never tried. Mom was one step away from the plastic sofa covers. Her solution was to purchase leather and never let my dad or the kids lay on it!! Playing with kids, relaxing and sleep were far more important to me than clean faucet screens.
Make no mistake, however, I know how to clean. She taught me well. She once bought the kids a present--miniature cleaning tools....a broom, rake, mop, and a stand up plastic vacuum. The kids were probably 7, 5 and 2 years old. She said they must be taught the importance of a clean house. The first thing that Matthew did with the broom was to run down the hallway and knock down all the pictures which hung on the wall. They, too, know the merits of a good dose of Pine-Sol because they remember cleaning day at Granny's.
By the time she married my father, Mom was afforded the luxury of hiring someone to help with the cleaning. That's right, help. Mom worked right along side the housekeeper making sure things were done her way. The hallway was scrubbed down with Pine-Sol weekly to remove kid fingerprints. She said her house was the only one in the world that had foot and fingerprints on the ceiling. Really? At Casa Clementino, ammonia was a staple and she always had two vacuums....one for the bare/wood floors and furniture (always a Rainbow, with a cap full of Pine-Sol in the water reservoir) and an upright for the carpets. Nothing gives me a memory rush of home like a stiff whiff of Pine-Sol. For some, the smell of warm cookies or rosemary chicken baking in the oven will give you the warm fuzzy feelings of home. Not me. It's Pine-Sol or Lemon Pledge. Although Mom was a fabulous cook, she cleaned way more than she cooked. When I miss my Mom all I have to do is bring out the Pine-Sol, scrub the toilet and it's as though I've had tea and scones with her.
The new millennium has brought many things to the world of housekeeping which have made things easier--especially for the woman who works outside the home. I must admit I'm always suckered into buying the latest cleaning product which claims to clean your shower without scrubbing. Frankly, I've never found anything which cleans my shower better than good old Comet and me, naked in the shower scrubbing the tile first, then finishing myself off with a shower. It just doesn't work any other way. I've also discovered that Pine-Sol really doesn't clean....not like 409, Comet or Oxy Clean. But, Pine-Sol tells the nose of everyone who enters the house that you ARE cleaning. It's a lot like garlic hitting a hot saute pan, your brain knows something great is about to happen merely by the smell.
When the Swiffer products hit the market, I wasn't quite ready to drink the Kool Aid. I caved about a year after they were introduced and was pleased how the dry Swiffer cleaned my hardwood floors. I have to admit that I would Swiffer the floor with my dust buster in one hand to suck up the "big dust". Not a bad system and it was much easier than dragging out the vacuum. Moreover, we all know that a broom just doesn't do the trick when you are sweeping dust bunnies and dog hair.
Now, I have to admit I'm not a big fan of the wet/mopping Swiffer system. The cloth just gets dirty too fast and you can't clean a floor with a dirty sponge. My Mom mopped the floors twice, once to clean, once to rinse. I'm happy to report that the Swiffer Sweep and Vac is so great that my broom now lives in the garage. My trusty little green Sweep and Vac is always plugged in and at the ready. It is important that you clean the reservoir and the filter regularly.
I would have never purchased a 40 dollar floor sweeper, had it not been for Kate's mother-in-law, Jami. Jami shares her home with three dogs and she loved her Swiffer and we all know that word of mouth is the best advertising. Once I purchased my own Sweep and Vac, I was a convert. I love this product so much that when I see someone in the store considering the purchase, I walk up to them and give them my personal testimony. I've sold three systems to complete strangers telling them that they will not be disappointed by this gem. I gave one to my friend as a 'hostess' gift during one of my visits. I wasn't the least bit afraid that I would offend her by giving her a vacuum/sweeper, because this product was just too good and I had to share it with her. She, too, is now a member of the Church of Swiffer. Praise the Lord and pass the Pine Sol!! We have long discussions about how the Swiffer has changed our lives. She will call me after cleaning her floors and tell me how great thou art! I love to purchase the Swiffer Sweep and Vac as a shower gift for a new bride. After all, you only use a crock pot once a month, you'll use this puppy everyday and will feel like someone turned water into wine when you are done.
I often wonder what my Mom would think about this amazing new system. I believe her cleaning was a form of personal suffering because she was never one to use short cuts. She was old school and you couldn't have clean without elbow grease, pain and Pine Sol. Cross your legs Mary Frances, we only have three nails! Alleluia and Amen!